Thursday, April 18, 2013

Abdonded Ship

We did it.  We've got one year of homeschooling under our belts and I've already switched curricula.  I very much believe in Charlotte Mason's style of learning/teaching.  I quote ""In this time of extraordinary pressure, educational and social, perhaps a mothers first duty to her children is to secure for them a quiet and growing time, a full six years of passive receptive life, the waking part of it for the most part spent out in the fresh air."  I agree with a gentle approach to my children's childhood, Affording them time to be a child and exploring their world.  I find it important to instill a love of the outdoors and nature for them.  I want them to be able to foster their own curiosity and seek out information on their own one day.   That's when we known we've succeeded as a teacher, when the student is capable of teaching themselves.
We used My Father's World for first grade and I really appreciated the approach in the way they lay out their lesson plans.  I do liked their planning and putting together a curriculum that teaches the Bible, but in my opinion they failed in a few key areas for 1st grade.  I didn't like their phonics program or their math.  Phonics really lacked any true rhyme or reason for the way they presented the sounds and there were no rules as to why.  As for their complete book of math, it's for grades 1-3 and also didn't seem to follow any sort of reason.  It had no real lessons, only work pages in the book to be completed.  Now in MFW defense, I have noticed they've upgraded their 1st grade phonics program, but not the math.  I have a friend that utilizes it for later grades and has nothing but good things to say so maybe I'll try it again some day.  Not sure.  I debated last year, when starting to homeschool,  using Sonlight but shied away from it due to the high price.  Little did I know they had a payment plan.  That's a really nice option.  I looked at it again for our second year and knew I was going to do something different no matter the cost.  Our first year wasn't a total waste, it was a great learning curve for them and for me.  We pounded out basics of learning to tell time, got the calendar down, we worked a lot of character building.  I also spent many days with them outside collecting leaves, bugs, feathers and pine cones.  We walked off Noah's Ark in the backyard, that was a pretty good sized boat and the science projects they suggested were easy and fun.  After pouring over many homeschool reviews I still kept coming back to Sonlight.  I caved and ordered Core B with the first grade readers on a 4 day lesson plan.  I also ordered All About Spelling because they needed a spelling program this year and also because I've heard so many good things about it abilities to teach phonics too.  A little tip, we took the back of a white board ( white board was purchased at Lowes for around $30) and I painted the back of the white board with magnetic paint.  It's perfect for what we need!
For math Sonlight suggests  Saxon Math, but I went with Math Mammoth.   It uses the heuristic approach,  which refers to experience-based techniques for problem solving, learning, and discovery and it was very affordable.  Probably the cheapest part of our year so far!
The Sonlight box came the other day and the kids were so excited.  They pulled everything out, we put it all together and I got everything ready to go for our first day of school.  Our first day came and after we did our seat work part of the day,.......math, writing, spelling, we moved to the couch with a snack and read all the required reading for the day.  It was such a nice change of pace, being in our jammies on the couch reading about people of the world doing a few devotionals and reading aloud Charlotte's Web.  The kids also brought something out to play with on the living room floor when they couldn't sit still on the couch any longer and I actually think they participated more freely because they were not stuck to a chair behind the kitchen table.  There are questions Sonlight poses for thought after you've read  the stories and I've been amazed by my little ones answers.  They're intelligent thought out responses and sometimes very poignant.   My little girls!
As for them talking in public, we're still working very hard on being brave.  They're asking more often when we go out on errands if they can be brave.  They still are earning "be brave" cards during the week and once they've hit their quota for the week they're allowed to turn them in for a reward.  They do get instant gratification rewards too when we're out, the very first time we stop somewhere they need to 'be brave' and they'll get a Hershey's Kiss when we get back into the car.  Then the rest of the day is for working toward their cards.  I've been doing more of the hand over techniques that one person on here suggested, but still not getting any spontaneous speech on their own, however they aren't nearly as shy about handing over their gum, money or whatever I hand them to give to said person.  They have taken huge strides in the past year which I can not dismiss so easily.  They are much more apt to make eye contact.  They hardly ever hide behind me anymore and I don't have to coax them near as much as I used to to get them to speak.  They will readily answer forced choice questions without much difficulty and I can even get them to parrot back a whole sentence like "Have a good weekend" to complete strangers!  I'm really pleased and proud of their progress. 

Other than curriculum changes we have more on the horizon, but I'll post more on that later.
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God Bless.